I have a 18year old daughter who because of the court system and my ex wife I have seen once.
My ex wife has a condition that causes bruising and she used this against me. Her and her legal team managed to get a court order against me for being violent. I was unaware at the time until I was served a court order not to harm her and within 14 days appear in court to give my account. My GP and legal team got ready to tell the court that she was not telling the truth about her bruises.
5 days later they dropped the case against me I was at first relived but that was short lived, they used the 14 day court order paper against me when Victoria was born. Even though the case was dropped her legal team still uses this against me
My ex wife lied to the court and so did her legal team and their nothing I can do about it. Lord Jeffery Archer was sent to jail for doing this they call it perjury
I wanted to go to Victoria christening but was invited 2 days after it happened.
I have never been told where my daughter lived because I am supposed to be so violent and would turn up and cause trouble. I have had the address for over 19 years but do not want to causes distress to Victoria by turning up
All I can hope for is may be some day Victoria will want to meet me and make her own mind up. If she wants contact then its not a problem
When I got divorced I did a clean break settlement I handed over the marital home and almost all the contents. For this I was asked to pay maintenance of 50p a year. Then the CSA was set up I was taken to court because I wanted to know 100% that Victoria was my child. The way the CSA is set up is if an absent parent makes 1 payment they will have to carry on paying until the child is 16, if half way through you find your not the Childs father you will not got a penny back
The CSA threatened me with court cost of over £1000 if they took me to court to prove I was the father, they got told it is up to the courts to fix cost and not the CSA.
The CSA can overrule old maintance court orders so the fact I gave my ex-wife a house worth over £260k did not count and they still want to get more money off me.
New regulations coming in to force
Now if the child spends 4 days with the parent who has care and the rest of the week is spent with the absent parent the parent with care will get less money, all this has done is is to stop any access with the absent parent.
Thanks to the courts father’s rights are stuffed again
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